DonorConnect supports written correspondence between recipients and donor families. If you are a donor family interested in writing to the recipient, following are some guidelines. If you need more detailed instructions on writing to recipients or have any questions, feel free to contact Family Services at DonorConnect at 801-478-7350 or email

The decision to write to your loved ones’ transplant recipient(s) is a very individual and personal one. What may be right for one person may not be right for someone else. Those who do write find that sharing information about their loved one, their family, and their decision to donate is very healing and helps them deal with their grief.

If you choose to write, try not to be influenced by arbitrary time frames. Some people are ready to write shortly after their loss, while other people may not be ready for months or even years. Do whatever feels right for you. All correspondence is completely anonymous and identities are kept confidential.

Writing to Recipients Brochure

Recipient Letters and Social Media

Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, etc.

    • DonorConnect believes correspondence letters can be very meaningful to donor families and recipients alike, and we recognize you may want to share them with those closest to you. We ask you to be considerate of the author of the letter, and do not share your letters on social media without permission from the person who wrote the letter. The reasons for this are listed below:


  • It is often emotionally difficult for the recipients or donor families to write, and these letters are often tender, private expressions of their deepest gratitude or feelings.
  • They trust that their personal messages are safe with those for whom they are intended.
  • Most letters that are written are intended to be anonymous; once they are put on social media it is less likely they will remain so. It is possible for someone, however well-meaning, to do a quick internet search with just a few key words and find out more details about you and/or the recipient than you may wish to be known.


If you have any questions in regards to these suggestions, feel free to call us.